Difficult experience vs. medical emergency — how to tell the difference as a sitter
29 replies · Harm Reduction
I'm sitting for a friend next month. I've read the basics but I want to be really clear on one thing: what are the signs that something has shifted from 'this is hard but okay' to 'I need to call 911'? I don't want to over-react to distress that's part of the process, but I also don't want to under-react to something real.
Medical emergency signals: loss of consciousness, inability to be roused, seizure activity, blue lips or severe breathing difficulty, chest pain, vomiting while unable to sit up safely. These are 911 situations. Psilocybin is physiologically very safe — essentially no documented deaths from psilocybin alone — but the scenarios above warrant emergency response. Don't delay calling because you're worried about legal consequences; medical responders are not law enforcement.
Non-emergency but needs active support: crying (normal, healthy), trembling (normal), fear or panic (normal, work with it), calling out for help (normal, be present and ground them), brief confusion about what's real (normal, gently orient them). Your presence, calm voice, and physical steadiness are the intervention. Don't try to talk them through it intellectually; just be a calm anchor.
One addition: benzodiazepines significantly reduce psilocybin effects if you have access. Not for every difficult moment — many difficult experiences are therapeutic — but if the person is in sustained terror, physically unsafe, or asking you to end it and has been for more than 30 minutes without any let-up, it's reasonable to discuss the option. Ideally have it available and agree in advance on when you'd use it.
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